Eternal Love

So you've been looking for eternal love. You have put enough time and effort into your search to know that it is not easy. You might have even been burned enough times to wonder if eternal love even exists. Well, I can tell you that you will find your fair share of losers and you will get discouraged sometimes. But, if you're really into finding it, my simple advice is to stop looking and start living.That's right, quit putting so much effort into finding your Prince Charming because it's very possible to find somebody who is compatible just by developing your social network, going out to events that you're interested in and just enjoying life without thinking that eternal love is an end by itself. If it's meant to happen, you'll find somebody with the same interests as you just by moving forward with your life.

What Does Eternal Love Take?

• 1Communication. If you don't tell your partner about stuff that bugs you or something you've noticed that needs attention, it's just going to fester until it blows up in both your faces. The other side of communication includes listening to your partner. He or she has interests, pet peeves and values, too, so be sure to listen to anything your partner has to say.
• 2Commitment. That goes for both of you. If the commitment isn't there from either party, the relationship probably isn't going to last. You'll have to do a frank analysis on whether both you and your partner is ready to commit to the partnership over the long term. If one person seems disconnected after you've been together for a while, it might be time to step back and figure out why.
• 3Realistic Expectations. This isn't a Disney movie, but that doesn't mean that you have to settle for somebody who isn't right for you, either. Most people don't find true love on the first or second try, so don't be too bummed if the first date doesn't work out. You just have to realize that nobody's going to be 100% perfect and decide what annoying habits you're willing to live with in an otherwise excellent person.
• 4Be yourself. It would stink if somebody fell in love with a fantasy person who isn't you. Maybe the guy who insists on dating only brunettes when you're a blonde isn't for you anyway. In the long run, it's better to find somebody who likes you for who you are as a person.